These past few days have given me a lot to be thankful for. We had our small family together for Thursday lunch and had plenty of delicious food. For the next 3 days there was lots of good football on. Not only did Texas win to face OU in the Big 12 Championship next Saturday (who would have predicted that?), Texas A&M got a big win last night in 7 Overtimes. That's like an 18 inning baseball game.
Weather has finally returned to normal. And I did get a bit of work done on Friday and Sunday. So I'm good for this next week.
Sunday, November 25, 2018
Saturday, November 24, 2018
Big Fat Brooke
Back when I was much younger and dumber, I met a girl in college, Brooke. We hit it off and perhaps there could have been some more good times then. But I couldn't see past that she was athletic and not the perky, petite young woman that perhaps I wanted to find (see below?)
As a result things went nowhere fast. I think I recall ignoring her at a party. She was none too pleased as I was so nice a few days before. Later I called her "Big Fat Brooke" to my friend Rob. He made fun of me, saying 'you were all ga-ga last week and now she's Big Fat Brooke'.
So perhaps an amend would be in order. But as the country song goes, I don't even know her last name.
As a result things went nowhere fast. I think I recall ignoring her at a party. She was none too pleased as I was so nice a few days before. Later I called her "Big Fat Brooke" to my friend Rob. He made fun of me, saying 'you were all ga-ga last week and now she's Big Fat Brooke'.
So perhaps an amend would be in order. But as the country song goes, I don't even know her last name.
Monday, November 12, 2018
Was It Quieter Then?
I was home the other day and of course the roar of a leaf blower and a car going by seemed to pierce what I expected as a quiet afternoon. It make me think, was it quieter back then?
Certainly the population of people, cars and equipment has increase very dramatically in Texas over the years. The 1980 census said 14.2 million people in Texas. Now the most recent 2017 estimate is 28.3 million. Double. McAllen had about 40,000 people then, now it is is 140,000. This town has more than tripled in size and number.
And the number of cars and machinery has increased at probably a higher rate as well. The technology hasn't improved any. We still have the same gas powered, internal combustion, "relic of the 19th century" that has been around in everyone's memory.
What would it take for technological change? There seems to be such political resistance for any advances. It seems like there's a perception that "we're number 1" with what we have, so don't do anything to upset those circumstances.
Will climate change have any effect? It probably depends on how fast that change occurs. If it is in geological time, then perhaps only a new world order would do it. And I can't say that anyone wants that pain. Eventually a balance will have to emerge.
Certainly the population of people, cars and equipment has increase very dramatically in Texas over the years. The 1980 census said 14.2 million people in Texas. Now the most recent 2017 estimate is 28.3 million. Double. McAllen had about 40,000 people then, now it is is 140,000. This town has more than tripled in size and number.
And the number of cars and machinery has increased at probably a higher rate as well. The technology hasn't improved any. We still have the same gas powered, internal combustion, "relic of the 19th century" that has been around in everyone's memory.
What would it take for technological change? There seems to be such political resistance for any advances. It seems like there's a perception that "we're number 1" with what we have, so don't do anything to upset those circumstances.
Will climate change have any effect? It probably depends on how fast that change occurs. If it is in geological time, then perhaps only a new world order would do it. And I can't say that anyone wants that pain. Eventually a balance will have to emerge.
Sunday, November 11, 2018
Advice to New Attorneys
Earlier this month a new crop of attorneys in Texas came into being, by virtue of passing the July 2018 bar exam. About the same time I was looking at a composite photo of the Hidalgo County Bar Association from 1999. I was struck by how many of the attorney I knew that were still here but also the number that had died/moved on/gone to jail/etc.
So after 26 years, I think I have some perspective to offer some advice. Most of it is probably what I call Mother-In-Law advice, practical wisdom that you probably either already know or could have figured out if you only took the time to think about it.
1. We're all in this together. While the competition never seems to go away for jobs, money, prestige, recognition, remember that we share a bond of professionalism that goes above any base wants. Consider the other person as an equal, even if you have opposing views.
2. Take good care of yourself. This career is a long haul, akin to the tortoise and the hare. Pace yourself for a long career, and you will likely have one. You'll be surprised at how many flame out along the way.
3. Always be willing to learn more. Just when you think you have it down, the law will change, or the market will change, or the technology will change. There will be a number of career moves you'll have to make. Be willing to act before the ball starts rolling and you can't outrun it.
4. Stay involved with your law school alumni. As time goes by, there will be fewer and fewer of you, and those bonds will be strengthened by some regular contact. Plus it is always a good reminder of where you came from and how far you have come. Be proud of your accomplishments.
Thanks to my Mother-In-Law JoAnn who always has some smart, practical wisdom. I won't forget the encouraging note she sent me after some early setbacks in law school. Mind you, I was only the fiance then. Her confidence helped me to press forward, and I'm proud to say I really came back stronger than ever.
So after 26 years, I think I have some perspective to offer some advice. Most of it is probably what I call Mother-In-Law advice, practical wisdom that you probably either already know or could have figured out if you only took the time to think about it.
1. We're all in this together. While the competition never seems to go away for jobs, money, prestige, recognition, remember that we share a bond of professionalism that goes above any base wants. Consider the other person as an equal, even if you have opposing views.
2. Take good care of yourself. This career is a long haul, akin to the tortoise and the hare. Pace yourself for a long career, and you will likely have one. You'll be surprised at how many flame out along the way.
3. Always be willing to learn more. Just when you think you have it down, the law will change, or the market will change, or the technology will change. There will be a number of career moves you'll have to make. Be willing to act before the ball starts rolling and you can't outrun it.
4. Stay involved with your law school alumni. As time goes by, there will be fewer and fewer of you, and those bonds will be strengthened by some regular contact. Plus it is always a good reminder of where you came from and how far you have come. Be proud of your accomplishments.
Thanks to my Mother-In-Law JoAnn who always has some smart, practical wisdom. I won't forget the encouraging note she sent me after some early setbacks in law school. Mind you, I was only the fiance then. Her confidence helped me to press forward, and I'm proud to say I really came back stronger than ever.
Sunday, October 14, 2018
Golf with Ed
Last weekend I wanted to play golf while in Houston and let my father Ed know. That Sat. afternoon, we went to where it all began for me, the Houston Country Club. Ed didn't play but drove around the cart. He said I would play from the 3 star tees (what we used to call the Old Man tees) and see if I could break 80. I thought that was a tall order.
So I gave it a good go, and shot 83. Power of a lofty goal. Even playing from the forward tees, I still tended to aim for the same fairway areas. I did hit the driver well but the greens were much faster than I expected. As Ed said, "if you had not have 3 putted, you would have broke 80." True, with 3 putts for bogey on 12, 14, 16 and 17. Still, a very good and fun round.
The highlight hole is Number 8, which is like a remodeled room in an old house. What was once a quirky par 5 is now a stout risk/reward part 4. I hit a great drive and 8 iron on the green and 2 putted for par.
I did recall many good rounds with my late friend Robert Koelsch there. Also I had never noticed how many of the greens are elevated about 4 feet. Funny the things you notice. Some things don't change. Same staff, same members, same logo. A good afternoon.
So I gave it a good go, and shot 83. Power of a lofty goal. Even playing from the forward tees, I still tended to aim for the same fairway areas. I did hit the driver well but the greens were much faster than I expected. As Ed said, "if you had not have 3 putted, you would have broke 80." True, with 3 putts for bogey on 12, 14, 16 and 17. Still, a very good and fun round.
The highlight hole is Number 8, which is like a remodeled room in an old house. What was once a quirky par 5 is now a stout risk/reward part 4. I hit a great drive and 8 iron on the green and 2 putted for par.
I did recall many good rounds with my late friend Robert Koelsch there. Also I had never noticed how many of the greens are elevated about 4 feet. Funny the things you notice. Some things don't change. Same staff, same members, same logo. A good afternoon.
Thursday, October 4, 2018
Popes for Dopes - The Fisherman's Tomb
Book Review: The Fisherman’s Tomb, by John O’Neill
A Modern Take on “Popes for Dopes”
By Gregory Turley, Class of 1987
Washington and Lee Alumni from the last 50 years will fondly
recall the late Professor J.D. Futch III’s spring term history class The Papacy
Since the Schism, also known as “Popes for Dopes”. Were this class to continue today, the Good
Doctor would definitely approve of adding the book The Fisherman’s Tomb by John O’Neill to the required reading list. It’s a story of international intrigue, a string
of 20th Century popes, a Texas oilman, and the search for the actual
grave of St. Peter, one of the twelve disciples.
For nearly 2,000 years, legend was that St. Peter, the first
head of the Church was buried underneath St. Peter’s Basilica in what is now
Vatican City. But no one knew for
sure. In 1939 tombs were found
underneath. Pope Pius XII wanted to
investigate but was lacking in money as well as political will. If the search were a failure, it would raise
more questions than answers about the beginning of the Church in Rome. A search needed to be secret, and it needed
to be paid for secretly.
George Strake, Sr. made his millions in the Conroe, Texas oil field. A
devout Catholic, he financed many special projects of the Catholic Church over
the years. When Pope Pius XII sent his emissary
to Houston in 1940 to request the financial support for this secret archaeological
excavation to find St. Peter’s tomb, Strake basically agreed to an unlimited
budget with the requirement that his participation be kept a secret.
Ten years later, in 1950, Pope Pius XII announced the results
of the search. But yet, the bones found
were nearly forgotten again for years.
In 1958, a new leader emerged named Margarita Guarducci to decipher
ancient inscriptions and clues and the search continued for years longer. A bitter internal struggle inside the Vatican
walls ensued and it was not until 2013 that Pope Francis announces the formal
conclusion.
Now, the Scavi Tour of the Vatican Necropolis is a popular
tourist attraction. The book is a fast
paced story of the search itself and more importantly, the result of the
search. Indiana Jones himself would be
proud to tell such a story.
John O’Neill is the also the author of the 2004 bestseller, Unfit for Command: Swift Boat
Veterans Speak Out Against John Kerry.
A graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy, he is a Vietnam Veteran and
longtime attorney in Houston. He credits his legal research skill in helping
to get the bottom of this Da Vinci Code-like
mystery.
Professor J.D Futch III taught History at Washington and Lee
University from 1962 to his retirement in 2011.
Before his death in 2017, he once
quipped “Were I elected to the Holy Office, I would take the name of Pius.” A story involving not only his 20th
century “namesake” Pius XII, but continuing for nearly a century to Paul, John Paul , Benedict and Francis certainly
makes the classic history lectures come alive once more.
Gregory Turley is an attorney in McAllen, Texas and author
of the books Always Patty and Hideaway. While he did not take the “Popes” class in
the 1980s, he does aspire to teach it one day.
Turley2.0@gmail.com
Wednesday, September 19, 2018
Robert Stuart Koelsch (d. 9/17/2018)
Robert was the type of person that made you want to be a friend of his. He was comfortable around a wide range of people, and had very few sharp edges. He had a fun sense of humor and a welcoming smile.
Robert was from a fine old Houston family. His father Philip was a career US Navy officer, rising to the rank of Admiral. He had one sister Frances "Frannie" he was close to.
Robert was a lawyer in Houston for many years, starting with the District Attorney's office in 1987 and then moving to private practice 5 years later. For many years, he was a solo practitioner in Houston and worked in the same office with another solo attorney and friend Sellers Thomas. He even ran for the Supreme Court of Texas as the Libertarian Party candidate (R.S. "Roberto" Koelsch) in 2012.
In 2003, Robert and his wife Julie moved to her hometown of Waco, TX where they lived for a number of years. Robert commuted back and forth to Houston. They did later divorce, and Robert moved to Lago Vista, Texas, where he established himself as a member of that small community.
He had two sons Philip and Hal and was involved with them during their formative years. It was important to him that they attend his same school, Kinkaid in Houston.
Robert was a very smart person and attended the University of Virginia for two years before returning home to the University of Texas from where he graduated. He was a member of the Phi Delta Theta fraternity at both universities. He then attended and graduated from South Texas College of Law.
Robert was a member of the Houston Country Club for many years and was an avid Saturday golfer, usually teeing off at 1:48 p.m. and walking the full 18 holes. He was very generous with his time and personality. He liked to be active physically and one of his weekly activities was mowing the grass of family property in the outer part of Houston. He was also a longtime Episcopalian and was member of the church in both Houston, Waco and Lago Vista.
Robert was from a fine old Houston family. His father Philip was a career US Navy officer, rising to the rank of Admiral. He had one sister Frances "Frannie" he was close to.
Robert was a lawyer in Houston for many years, starting with the District Attorney's office in 1987 and then moving to private practice 5 years later. For many years, he was a solo practitioner in Houston and worked in the same office with another solo attorney and friend Sellers Thomas. He even ran for the Supreme Court of Texas as the Libertarian Party candidate (R.S. "Roberto" Koelsch) in 2012.
In 2003, Robert and his wife Julie moved to her hometown of Waco, TX where they lived for a number of years. Robert commuted back and forth to Houston. They did later divorce, and Robert moved to Lago Vista, Texas, where he established himself as a member of that small community.
He had two sons Philip and Hal and was involved with them during their formative years. It was important to him that they attend his same school, Kinkaid in Houston.
Robert was a very smart person and attended the University of Virginia for two years before returning home to the University of Texas from where he graduated. He was a member of the Phi Delta Theta fraternity at both universities. He then attended and graduated from South Texas College of Law.
Robert was a member of the Houston Country Club for many years and was an avid Saturday golfer, usually teeing off at 1:48 p.m. and walking the full 18 holes. He was very generous with his time and personality. He liked to be active physically and one of his weekly activities was mowing the grass of family property in the outer part of Houston. He was also a longtime Episcopalian and was member of the church in both Houston, Waco and Lago Vista.
Saturday, September 15, 2018
Adulting
The Millennials have coined a new verb - "To Adult" eg. to behave in a manner of an adult, typically referred to in terms of paid work, family and financial responsibility, and general Real World living.
It made me think of the changes from our Generation X (born 1965-1975) experience. Then you had an expectation to go to college, but only for the requisite 4 years. Grad school was not for everyone back then, so the expectation was - Get a job and stay there for a good long time, just like your parents. It was not easy to find work and it didn't get much easier once your were working, so opportunities were not as plentiful. People didn't move around as much as they do now.
Now it seems that many more people go to college and grad school both. As I have mentioned, staying at the same job is not as common. And many more opportunities, perhaps so many, that some people remain underemployed while thinking they are looking for something better online.
It made me think of the changes from our Generation X (born 1965-1975) experience. Then you had an expectation to go to college, but only for the requisite 4 years. Grad school was not for everyone back then, so the expectation was - Get a job and stay there for a good long time, just like your parents. It was not easy to find work and it didn't get much easier once your were working, so opportunities were not as plentiful. People didn't move around as much as they do now.
Now it seems that many more people go to college and grad school both. As I have mentioned, staying at the same job is not as common. And many more opportunities, perhaps so many, that some people remain underemployed while thinking they are looking for something better online.
College Football Saturday
It's a quiet day at home after going to a yoga class this morning. That was good to be around some friends and get some activity in. The Sweat Surrender. It has been a while since I've done some good physical exercise, so glad to be back.
This afternoon and evening, I'm going some cooking at home and watching football. Now is Oklahoma State v. Boise States. Earlier I saw Syracuse beat Florida State. Then tonight, there will not only be Texas v. USC but also Alabama v. Ole Miss and Ohio State v TCU.
TCU is playing at AT&T Stadium and it made me think that UT has played there very few times. So I have not seen a game there. The last time there was Texas v. Arkansas and the Big 12 Game, both in the Mack Brown years.
Hopefully we will get back to the top 10 and back to Jerry World.
This afternoon and evening, I'm going some cooking at home and watching football. Now is Oklahoma State v. Boise States. Earlier I saw Syracuse beat Florida State. Then tonight, there will not only be Texas v. USC but also Alabama v. Ole Miss and Ohio State v TCU.
TCU is playing at AT&T Stadium and it made me think that UT has played there very few times. So I have not seen a game there. The last time there was Texas v. Arkansas and the Big 12 Game, both in the Mack Brown years.
Hopefully we will get back to the top 10 and back to Jerry World.
Thursday, September 6, 2018
Top 10 Concerts Seen
1985 - REM
1983 - the Police, also 2007
George Strait - Las Vegas - 2016
Kenny Chesney and Tim McGraw - 2012 - Reliant Stadium
ACL Live - Boz Skaggs
Aaron Watson - Los Fresnos Rodeo
Garth Books - 1991
Van Halen - 1981
Madonna - 1987
Elton John - 2017
Tom Petty - 1985
1983 - the Police, also 2007
George Strait - Las Vegas - 2016
Kenny Chesney and Tim McGraw - 2012 - Reliant Stadium
ACL Live - Boz Skaggs
Aaron Watson - Los Fresnos Rodeo
Garth Books - 1991
Van Halen - 1981
Madonna - 1987
Elton John - 2017
Tom Petty - 1985
Sunday, August 19, 2018
A day of rest
I've been working hard this week, not only on the appeal brief, but also to get ready to go out of town the week of Labor Day to Colorado.
So I planned today to take it easy. I went to church after a little work in the yard. Afterward, I was able to visit privately w Father Jim in his office. That was very pleasant as I like the feeling of being at someone's home and being uninterrupted. We talked about his upcoming retirement. He wants to do 4 things: golf, sailing, painting and supply ministry (Sundays only!).
Then I happened to see my friend Martin at the office. I just went to get my computer for fun, not work. I met his girlfriend Mari and it was a nice talk as well. But hot outside. Then I got home and have done some good cleaning and straightening. No rush, but glad to have some extra time to do it.
Yoga tonight at 5:30. This day is going fast. That's what Father Jim will likely say about his retirement.
So I planned today to take it easy. I went to church after a little work in the yard. Afterward, I was able to visit privately w Father Jim in his office. That was very pleasant as I like the feeling of being at someone's home and being uninterrupted. We talked about his upcoming retirement. He wants to do 4 things: golf, sailing, painting and supply ministry (Sundays only!).
Then I happened to see my friend Martin at the office. I just went to get my computer for fun, not work. I met his girlfriend Mari and it was a nice talk as well. But hot outside. Then I got home and have done some good cleaning and straightening. No rush, but glad to have some extra time to do it.
Yoga tonight at 5:30. This day is going fast. That's what Father Jim will likely say about his retirement.
Friday, August 17, 2018
Appeal Brief shaping up
I have been working on my first appeal brief to the 5th Circuit Court of Appeals. I would say I'm 85% done and plan on working Saturday and Monday and as much Tuesday as need to get it done.
I did receive the co-defendant's brief today so I have an example of what to do/what not to do. It was good to see, but it really doesn't change my approach.
As David Cook says about the golf swing, it doesn't matter how you do it as long as you are completely confident that your way is the best for YOU.
I did receive the co-defendant's brief today so I have an example of what to do/what not to do. It was good to see, but it really doesn't change my approach.
As David Cook says about the golf swing, it doesn't matter how you do it as long as you are completely confident that your way is the best for YOU.
Saturday, August 11, 2018
Bodhi Yoga retreat 2018
August 1-6 was the Bodhi Yoga retreat in Isla Mujeres, Mexico. My friend Charles said "Aren't you worried about safety?" He then remarked that he was going to Jerusalem for vacation. So he'd rather be in the West Bank than a Mexican resort. Not I.
This is the second of 4 retreats that I have been on, the first one was in 2017. I believe I am rising in seniority, like Camp La Junta, back in the 70s. It's kind of like camp, with activities planned, lots of people the same age, common meals, water sports, healthy competition, and such.
I gained some good yoga practice knowledge of new poses e.g. pigeon, down dog, pyramid, and so forth. I like the Yin practice as well. Our teacher Kristi was there which was a very pleasant surprise. Other teachers were Anna, Blake and Mel. As usual, there's about an 80/20 ratio of women to men. Maybe that will even out as time goes by.
Weather was great, food was plentiful and the hotel staff remembered me and my aura from last year. So that was cool. Susan and I had a great time and it was an ideal vacation for both of us.
This is the second of 4 retreats that I have been on, the first one was in 2017. I believe I am rising in seniority, like Camp La Junta, back in the 70s. It's kind of like camp, with activities planned, lots of people the same age, common meals, water sports, healthy competition, and such.
I gained some good yoga practice knowledge of new poses e.g. pigeon, down dog, pyramid, and so forth. I like the Yin practice as well. Our teacher Kristi was there which was a very pleasant surprise. Other teachers were Anna, Blake and Mel. As usual, there's about an 80/20 ratio of women to men. Maybe that will even out as time goes by.
Weather was great, food was plentiful and the hotel staff remembered me and my aura from last year. So that was cool. Susan and I had a great time and it was an ideal vacation for both of us.
Sunday, July 29, 2018
Humility
This is a loaded word - whenever we talk about it, it about trying to prove what we have without showing how much we need it.
Sometime it means going with the flow. Today its 103F, so you can't just go do anything you want outside.
Yesterday the car was broken in the morning and I was search for a rental car. By 1 p.m. I was back driving my own car. It magically got done. I didn't really do much for that to happen. But maybe I set it up and got out of the way.
Today, since it was so hot, I did what came naturally - napped in the afternoon. The proverbial siesta. Now, I'm writing away. Energy comes in interesting spurts.
Tomorrow, I've got 2 days at work before leaving for the rest of the week. I wonder what all will happen. Maybe just a little, but that is OK. It will be enough whatever it turns out to be.
Sometime it means going with the flow. Today its 103F, so you can't just go do anything you want outside.
Yesterday the car was broken in the morning and I was search for a rental car. By 1 p.m. I was back driving my own car. It magically got done. I didn't really do much for that to happen. But maybe I set it up and got out of the way.
Today, since it was so hot, I did what came naturally - napped in the afternoon. The proverbial siesta. Now, I'm writing away. Energy comes in interesting spurts.
Tomorrow, I've got 2 days at work before leaving for the rest of the week. I wonder what all will happen. Maybe just a little, but that is OK. It will be enough whatever it turns out to be.
Friday, July 27, 2018
July 26 and 27
I have a daily reflection book and it is always interesting to look at the various dates and find a specific thought. For yesterday and today, it's been harder to do. Perhaps its the dog days of summer, but the usual routine seems a bit disrupted.
Last night I was in South Padre Island. Today I'm in San Antonio. Right now I don't know the plan for Saturday but I am staying fluid.
As JR reminded me, "Next week you'll be on the beach". Which is true. So I'm just going to keep the forward motion. Moving the ball down the field as the Skipper would say.
No telling what July 28 will bring. Tonight is a full moon so maybe that has something to do with everything.
Last night I was in South Padre Island. Today I'm in San Antonio. Right now I don't know the plan for Saturday but I am staying fluid.
As JR reminded me, "Next week you'll be on the beach". Which is true. So I'm just going to keep the forward motion. Moving the ball down the field as the Skipper would say.
No telling what July 28 will bring. Tonight is a full moon so maybe that has something to do with everything.
Sunday, July 22, 2018
Summer Changes
I used to say that July 4, Independence Day, was my favorite holiday. It usually involved a full day of being outside in the summer. Plus there was also a 3 day weekend, which meant a lot of going out at night.
Now that I am older, I may reconsider that. I'm at the Island this weekend and the day are extremely hot, bright sun and glare, I'm spending more time inside and not so interested in going out at night. In fact, being inside is usually preferable.
Perhaps it is the hot Valley sun. But maybe, things just change a bit as time goes by.
Can you believe that now I like the winters when the days are short?
Now that I am older, I may reconsider that. I'm at the Island this weekend and the day are extremely hot, bright sun and glare, I'm spending more time inside and not so interested in going out at night. In fact, being inside is usually preferable.
Perhaps it is the hot Valley sun. But maybe, things just change a bit as time goes by.
Can you believe that now I like the winters when the days are short?
Saturday, July 21, 2018
Varicose Vein Surgery
I had my right leg varicose vein surgical procedure on July 5 and now, over 2 weeks later, the recovery is going well. The main condition is that I wear compression socks to my knee to keep swelling/bruising down and to promote circulations. I've been walking a lot and getting back to yoga. I do have some sympathetic feelings in the top of my leg where the actual vein work was.
The procedure is to insert a tiny catheter at a point below the knee and then go up in the thigh to close off the diseased vein. The disease causes blood to flow down and reflex and pool in the lower leg causing swelling and discomfort/pain. This has gone on for years so it was not a whim to do. Also the matter while it was probably exacerbated from exercise, was mainly heriditary.
I anticipate that the recovery will be like an orthopedic recovery and take 6-9 months to fully heal. But so far, so good.
The procedure is to insert a tiny catheter at a point below the knee and then go up in the thigh to close off the diseased vein. The disease causes blood to flow down and reflex and pool in the lower leg causing swelling and discomfort/pain. This has gone on for years so it was not a whim to do. Also the matter while it was probably exacerbated from exercise, was mainly heriditary.
I anticipate that the recovery will be like an orthopedic recovery and take 6-9 months to fully heal. But so far, so good.
Saturday, July 7, 2018
Reverse Bucket List
I wrote this on March 30, 2018, age 52 so there are 52 items here. A reverse list is thinks already done, so it's a type of gratitude list.
Bicycling in Medellin, Colombia
Paddle board in Maui
Drive a Ferrari
Hike Kenai Fjiords National Park, Alaska
Own a dream car - Mercedes AMG
Speak at Hidalgo County CLE
Represent a Fortune 500 company
Be a City Attorney
Fly in a private jet
Ride a Harley in the Texas Hill Country
Play guitar in a band
Sing in church choir
Settle a sexual assault case for a victim
Ski at Deer Valley
Jet ski around Key West
Dance with Sarah at Sweet 16
Get name in New York Times
Swim onto a Caribbean island from a boat
Drive the Autobahn
Watch the sun come up in Madrid after staying up all night
Attend a 2nd high school prom
Make Dean's List
Golf at Cypress Point and 2 under par after 6 holes
Nearly make a hole in 1 on my birthday
Renew wedding vows after 25 years of marriage
Meet Oliver North
Helicopter ride over Grand Canyon
Ride a double decker London bus
36 holes in 1 day at Sand Hills
Visit Mount Rushmore
Go to Mayo Clinic
Get sober
Write a book
Make a movie review blog
Make a movie
Drive to California
Sit for Board Certification exam in Tax Law
Surf
Ride in MS 150
Learn tactital shooting
Make a YouTube video
Refinish a rifle
Run a marathon
Complete Ironman 70.3 triathlon
Build a garden
Attend Masters golf tournament
Crash a wedding
Be on the evening news -positively
Climb a 14er mountain
Bench press 155 lbs
Visit Mall of America
Bicycling in Medellin, Colombia
Paddle board in Maui
Drive a Ferrari
Hike Kenai Fjiords National Park, Alaska
Own a dream car - Mercedes AMG
Speak at Hidalgo County CLE
Represent a Fortune 500 company
Be a City Attorney
Fly in a private jet
Ride a Harley in the Texas Hill Country
Play guitar in a band
Sing in church choir
Settle a sexual assault case for a victim
Ski at Deer Valley
Jet ski around Key West
Dance with Sarah at Sweet 16
Get name in New York Times
Swim onto a Caribbean island from a boat
Drive the Autobahn
Watch the sun come up in Madrid after staying up all night
Attend a 2nd high school prom
Make Dean's List
Golf at Cypress Point and 2 under par after 6 holes
Nearly make a hole in 1 on my birthday
Renew wedding vows after 25 years of marriage
Meet Oliver North
Helicopter ride over Grand Canyon
Ride a double decker London bus
36 holes in 1 day at Sand Hills
Visit Mount Rushmore
Go to Mayo Clinic
Get sober
Write a book
Make a movie review blog
Make a movie
Drive to California
Sit for Board Certification exam in Tax Law
Surf
Ride in MS 150
Learn tactital shooting
Make a YouTube video
Refinish a rifle
Run a marathon
Complete Ironman 70.3 triathlon
Build a garden
Attend Masters golf tournament
Crash a wedding
Be on the evening news -positively
Climb a 14er mountain
Bench press 155 lbs
Visit Mall of America
Wednesday, July 4, 2018
My favorite golf courses
Having just returned from TPC Sawgrass, I would rank that a 5 star course and in my Top 10.
What are the other 9 you say? Glad you asked,
Shoal Creek, Alabama - all around tops. US Womens Open just played there last month.
Brackenridge Park, San Antonio - such great history of Texas golf
Houston Country Club - where I learned the game
Prairie Dunes, Kansas - a unique experience. Also home of many championships
Olympic Club, San Francisco - a fine test of golf, not easy but fair
Bali Hai, Las Vegas. Just a really fun place to play
Austin Golf Club
CommonGround, Denver
Sand Hills, Nebraska - best course in the USA? I'd say yes.
All places I could enjoy playing regularly.
What are the other 9 you say? Glad you asked,
Shoal Creek, Alabama - all around tops. US Womens Open just played there last month.
Brackenridge Park, San Antonio - such great history of Texas golf
Houston Country Club - where I learned the game
Prairie Dunes, Kansas - a unique experience. Also home of many championships
Olympic Club, San Francisco - a fine test of golf, not easy but fair
Bali Hai, Las Vegas. Just a really fun place to play
Austin Golf Club
CommonGround, Denver
Sand Hills, Nebraska - best course in the USA? I'd say yes.
All places I could enjoy playing regularly.
Friday, June 29, 2018
TPC Sawgrass golf
Ranked as a top course in the USA, Tournament Players Course at Sawgrass, Ponte Vedra, Florida is a true bucket list course. It's home to the 5th major, the Players Championship, the most famous hole in the country, the Island green 17th, and a course that anyone with the $$$ can arrange to play. I teed it up at 12:30 on Thursday.
The course did not disappoint. It's a dedicated track so the visual of it is very striking, expansive, manicured. Similar look to Augusta National, down to the wide expanses and the pine straw. It's at home in Florida, with water and palm trees. Designed by Pete Dye, the noted architect in the 70s, what was cutting edge at the time (pot bunkers, large mounds, crowned greens, sharp angled water hazards and bunkers) is now mainstream. It also reminded me of another Dye course, my old home of Austin Country Club.
Conditions were excellent. I played from the White tees and it was just challenging enough without taking all the fun out. Good driving, sharp iron play, tricky putting. It is a fitting place for true players like winners, Tiger Woods, Davis Love, Calvin Peete and Webb Simpson this year.
Hard rain and lightning cancelled the back nine, so I didn't play the famous 17th. But I got plenty of the taste and would rank the course very high on my list. I would recommend it as a Must Play.
The course did not disappoint. It's a dedicated track so the visual of it is very striking, expansive, manicured. Similar look to Augusta National, down to the wide expanses and the pine straw. It's at home in Florida, with water and palm trees. Designed by Pete Dye, the noted architect in the 70s, what was cutting edge at the time (pot bunkers, large mounds, crowned greens, sharp angled water hazards and bunkers) is now mainstream. It also reminded me of another Dye course, my old home of Austin Country Club.
Conditions were excellent. I played from the White tees and it was just challenging enough without taking all the fun out. Good driving, sharp iron play, tricky putting. It is a fitting place for true players like winners, Tiger Woods, Davis Love, Calvin Peete and Webb Simpson this year.
Hard rain and lightning cancelled the back nine, so I didn't play the famous 17th. But I got plenty of the taste and would rank the course very high on my list. I would recommend it as a Must Play.
Sunday, June 17, 2018
Happy Father's Day
Thinking of fathers today, I guess I am qualified on the topic. In addition to my own father Ed and my own daughter Sarah, there seem to be many other fatherly figures that deserve a mention today:
In raising my own daughter, I am thankful for the others dads that were there at those points in time. All of "my tribe" the Indian Princesses of the E.A. Smith YMCA made a big difference in those formative years. All the parents from Grace Christian School, North Pointe Elementary, Gonzalez Elementary, Cathey Middle School and IB Lamar.
My father in law David, my grandfather Wilton, my uncle Vernon, gone but not forgotten.
Family friends when I was growing up: Fred, Glenn, Bob C., Bill N., Tinsley.
It takes a village. A lot of fine men through the years. I hope to carry on the noble tradition.
In raising my own daughter, I am thankful for the others dads that were there at those points in time. All of "my tribe" the Indian Princesses of the E.A. Smith YMCA made a big difference in those formative years. All the parents from Grace Christian School, North Pointe Elementary, Gonzalez Elementary, Cathey Middle School and IB Lamar.
My father in law David, my grandfather Wilton, my uncle Vernon, gone but not forgotten.
Family friends when I was growing up: Fred, Glenn, Bob C., Bill N., Tinsley.
It takes a village. A lot of fine men through the years. I hope to carry on the noble tradition.
Saturday, June 16, 2018
Summer of 1988
There's an old Seinfeld episode where Kramer is getting after George for doing nothing with his life:
"You got a job?" No
"You got any money" No
"You got a woman" No
"Do you have any prospects?" No
"Do you have any conceivable reason to get out of bed in the morning"
"I like to read the Daily News"
Thinking of the Summer of 1988, I didn't have that much going on either. I had graduated from college in June 1987, but a year later, was back living with my parents, didn't have a job, but I was studying from the LSAT which I took (and aced) in early summer.
I then signed up for 2 classes at the University of Houston. That was in hindsight kind of a waste of time since I was really not that interested in making any career out of 1 accounting class and 1 computer science class. As a commuter, I didn't really meet anyone that month. The best I could do was to find out that this one girl worked at a club. I went there one time looking for her, but of course she wasn't there.
So I had no job, no money and no woman. One thing I remember is going to this local sports bar in the evenings after dinner, when I would have a beer or 2 and watch the Astros on cable TV, which we didn't have at home. There was a rookie catcher breaking in that summer named Craig Biggio, who would go on to a Hall of Fame career.
After that class ended I started looking for a job and did find one after about a month and started around August 15, working downtown for Texas Eastern Corporation. That turned out to be a decent job and then I got into law school and started moving forward.
But the summer was not all bad. I do recall that I had a date with a lovely lady. We went to see the movie Bull Durham. I also got invited to a couple of parties and met some recent UT grads and other people from Houston. I was able to use the Houston Country Club on a reasonable basis. That summer the course was closed due to a renovation, so my dad and I went to the local driving range a lot and he arranged us many golf games at local courses: Brae Burn, Westwood, Weston Lakes, Lakeside, River Oaks, Lochinvar. I've probably not played any of those courses since.
We also played in a partnership tournament in Austin at the Hills of Lakeway and Barton Creek and had a record day, coming in second place which was exciting. I even got set up on a date, which was fun and ended up at the Deep Eddy Cabaret, which ironically is still the same all these years later.
All in all, it was not a bad summer. I had just moved to Houston and still getting my feet wet. After August of 1988, I knew things would be OK there.
"You got a job?" No
"You got any money" No
"You got a woman" No
"Do you have any prospects?" No
"Do you have any conceivable reason to get out of bed in the morning"
"I like to read the Daily News"
Thinking of the Summer of 1988, I didn't have that much going on either. I had graduated from college in June 1987, but a year later, was back living with my parents, didn't have a job, but I was studying from the LSAT which I took (and aced) in early summer.
I then signed up for 2 classes at the University of Houston. That was in hindsight kind of a waste of time since I was really not that interested in making any career out of 1 accounting class and 1 computer science class. As a commuter, I didn't really meet anyone that month. The best I could do was to find out that this one girl worked at a club. I went there one time looking for her, but of course she wasn't there.
So I had no job, no money and no woman. One thing I remember is going to this local sports bar in the evenings after dinner, when I would have a beer or 2 and watch the Astros on cable TV, which we didn't have at home. There was a rookie catcher breaking in that summer named Craig Biggio, who would go on to a Hall of Fame career.
After that class ended I started looking for a job and did find one after about a month and started around August 15, working downtown for Texas Eastern Corporation. That turned out to be a decent job and then I got into law school and started moving forward.
But the summer was not all bad. I do recall that I had a date with a lovely lady. We went to see the movie Bull Durham. I also got invited to a couple of parties and met some recent UT grads and other people from Houston. I was able to use the Houston Country Club on a reasonable basis. That summer the course was closed due to a renovation, so my dad and I went to the local driving range a lot and he arranged us many golf games at local courses: Brae Burn, Westwood, Weston Lakes, Lakeside, River Oaks, Lochinvar. I've probably not played any of those courses since.
We also played in a partnership tournament in Austin at the Hills of Lakeway and Barton Creek and had a record day, coming in second place which was exciting. I even got set up on a date, which was fun and ended up at the Deep Eddy Cabaret, which ironically is still the same all these years later.
All in all, it was not a bad summer. I had just moved to Houston and still getting my feet wet. After August of 1988, I knew things would be OK there.
House Park Hill
I went to a high school graduation party last week. It was held in an outdoor venue and a very nice affair with lots of family and friends. The graduate played volleyball and everyone had pizza and cake and soft drinks and water. Some of the adults had a drink or two.
It made me think of the very different Austin High Class of 1983 graduation party, held at Saagerunde Hall. Joe King Carrasco played some of his early mosh style music. We were graduates and it was not a school party so going back and forth to the parking lot for beer was common. One of my friends rolled through the Party Bar on Guadalupe with the graduation tassel hanging from the rear view.
After the party, I rode with the late great Aaron Kluth to some afterparty. As was common then, Aaron was speeding westbound on W 15th street when after crossing West Ave., there was a crest of the steep hill before going down over the overpass of North Lamar. The plan was to time the green lights just so to hit top speed while going over the hill to get "airborne".
Now Aaron was feeling it. He probably hit about 65 mph at the top of the hill. We hit the crest and bounced up in the seats so high I hit my head on the top of the roof. No seat belts of course. We probably came an inch or two off the ground and then came crashing down. Miraculously he maintained control and we barrelled down the hill hooting and hollering.
The things we did back then are hard to believe now: jumping off the Mopac bridge, boating at night, top speed on Loop 360, midnight swimming. It wasn't all fun and games: Trey Thorn fell off the back of a motorcycle and died. Lara Tatum died when the roofless Blazer she was riding in flipped over. We even had a suicide in 1980 or so of a classmate's brother.
Austin was smaller then than it is now. I guess like any town the kids eventually get bored. Glad that our party here was more low key. She's now on a graduation cruise. So all is well.
It made me think of the very different Austin High Class of 1983 graduation party, held at Saagerunde Hall. Joe King Carrasco played some of his early mosh style music. We were graduates and it was not a school party so going back and forth to the parking lot for beer was common. One of my friends rolled through the Party Bar on Guadalupe with the graduation tassel hanging from the rear view.
After the party, I rode with the late great Aaron Kluth to some afterparty. As was common then, Aaron was speeding westbound on W 15th street when after crossing West Ave., there was a crest of the steep hill before going down over the overpass of North Lamar. The plan was to time the green lights just so to hit top speed while going over the hill to get "airborne".
Now Aaron was feeling it. He probably hit about 65 mph at the top of the hill. We hit the crest and bounced up in the seats so high I hit my head on the top of the roof. No seat belts of course. We probably came an inch or two off the ground and then came crashing down. Miraculously he maintained control and we barrelled down the hill hooting and hollering.
The things we did back then are hard to believe now: jumping off the Mopac bridge, boating at night, top speed on Loop 360, midnight swimming. It wasn't all fun and games: Trey Thorn fell off the back of a motorcycle and died. Lara Tatum died when the roofless Blazer she was riding in flipped over. We even had a suicide in 1980 or so of a classmate's brother.
Austin was smaller then than it is now. I guess like any town the kids eventually get bored. Glad that our party here was more low key. She's now on a graduation cruise. So all is well.
Saturday, June 9, 2018
IDEA Alamo - talk to students
I had the honor of speaking to a group of seniors at the IDEA Alamo charter high school on May 31, about writing my book Hideaway. Here's a recap of what I told them:
You each have a unique story to tell, unlike anyone else's story. And there is a hunger for original content. No one needs to give you permission to write it
So set a short goal. Share it with someone else. Settle in for the long haul.
I then read from the chapter where Thomas tells Harvey about his problem and Harvey tells him the temporary solution to go to the Hideaway.
I talked about what the criticisms I expected and how the response was very different:
When I thought it was only a fiction story, I heard "I felt like you were talking"
When I thought it was too short, I heard "I liked that it was a fast read"
When I thought I didn't know enough technical detail, "That's exactly what it is like"
When I thought the characters were too closely based on real like, "You have a vivid imagination"
and
"Which one is me?"
When I thought there were small mistakes, "I didn't notice any"
I told them about publishing on CreateSpace.com and Amazon. The costs is basically zero: no minimum order, no setup fee, no artwork fee, no editorial review. You can choose to pay for these, but you don't have to. They also liked hearing about the royalty structure (30% to Amazon, exclusive sales channel for 90 days, and recoup of the cost of printing, as well as the costs of shipping. The printing on demand concept was intriguing as well.
I think they were most interested in that business end of things and how the costs worked.
Thanks to Ms. Marisol Garcia for setting up my visit.
You each have a unique story to tell, unlike anyone else's story. And there is a hunger for original content. No one needs to give you permission to write it
So set a short goal. Share it with someone else. Settle in for the long haul.
I then read from the chapter where Thomas tells Harvey about his problem and Harvey tells him the temporary solution to go to the Hideaway.
I talked about what the criticisms I expected and how the response was very different:
When I thought it was only a fiction story, I heard "I felt like you were talking"
When I thought it was too short, I heard "I liked that it was a fast read"
When I thought I didn't know enough technical detail, "That's exactly what it is like"
When I thought the characters were too closely based on real like, "You have a vivid imagination"
and
"Which one is me?"
When I thought there were small mistakes, "I didn't notice any"
I told them about publishing on CreateSpace.com and Amazon. The costs is basically zero: no minimum order, no setup fee, no artwork fee, no editorial review. You can choose to pay for these, but you don't have to. They also liked hearing about the royalty structure (30% to Amazon, exclusive sales channel for 90 days, and recoup of the cost of printing, as well as the costs of shipping. The printing on demand concept was intriguing as well.
I think they were most interested in that business end of things and how the costs worked.
Thanks to Ms. Marisol Garcia for setting up my visit.
Monday, May 28, 2018
3 Day Weekend
It has been a nice weekend at home. Despite hot temperatures, I did get some fun things done. Saw the new Solo movie, 4 stars on Southlandview.blogspot.com. I also played 16 holes of golf. We skipped the last 2 since the sun was going down. Hot, windy and lots of glare, Timm and I agreed that added 2 shots per side.
I've had the flag flying all three days. George and I went for a swim in the pool this morning. That was a fun time. Then I cooked out some burgers and dove from my last hunting trip. They turned out great.
Back to work tomorrow. I had an appeal brief due June 14 that my client said "Don't wait until the last minute." So I plan on starting in earnest tomorrow to get 2 of the 16 hours that I anticipate it will take.
I've had the flag flying all three days. George and I went for a swim in the pool this morning. That was a fun time. Then I cooked out some burgers and dove from my last hunting trip. They turned out great.
Back to work tomorrow. I had an appeal brief due June 14 that my client said "Don't wait until the last minute." So I plan on starting in earnest tomorrow to get 2 of the 16 hours that I anticipate it will take.
Wednesday, May 16, 2018
Piano Lessons
While playing golf with my 71 year old friend Bill, his fellow player Charles asked him in a snide manner "Do you have a piano lesson tomorrow?"
It reminded me of how my "friends" growing up thought of my piano lessons. Many times, I'd have to come in from outside playing for a piano lesson. I took lessons from age 8 to 16 so I had a lot of teachers. Some better than others, we moved several times so there was always a new one. Some men, some women.
Of course not all other kids appreciated that, including me. When I was able to make the decision myself, I stopped such lessons.
Now I'm back playing on my own. I enjoy it and have a good base. But hearing that snide remark brought back a LOT of memories.
I asked Bill "do you really have a piano lesson tomorrow?" He said yes, that he wanted to learn to play his mother's piano.
So I'm glad I know how to play. Even if it was not so easy to learn back then.
It reminded me of how my "friends" growing up thought of my piano lessons. Many times, I'd have to come in from outside playing for a piano lesson. I took lessons from age 8 to 16 so I had a lot of teachers. Some better than others, we moved several times so there was always a new one. Some men, some women.
Of course not all other kids appreciated that, including me. When I was able to make the decision myself, I stopped such lessons.
Now I'm back playing on my own. I enjoy it and have a good base. But hearing that snide remark brought back a LOT of memories.
I asked Bill "do you really have a piano lesson tomorrow?" He said yes, that he wanted to learn to play his mother's piano.
So I'm glad I know how to play. Even if it was not so easy to learn back then.
Wednesday, May 9, 2018
Gray in the Temples
When I was just out of college living in Washington DC, back in 1987, I enjoyed browsing at some fine men's clothing stores. I admired the clothes but could not practically afford them since I was barely getting by.
I do remember buying a pair of shoes for 50% off due to a strange size. I wore those proudly. I recall the original retail was $160 which would probably be $400+ today.
At the time I had bought them there was also a suit for sale. It was a nailhead pattern, very distinguished, charcoal grey, maybe even double breasted, in the right size. I had tried it on and it looked good! But it costs about $600 then, even on sale.
I recall that the salesman told me "You probably need a little gray in your temples to wear this". So that was the end of that. I was 22 years old!
Advancing now to the eve of my 53rd birthday. I was looking in the mirror today and noticed that Gray in my Temples. I'm in! But now I live in a near tropical climate, no one wears suits much in this day and age of casual days, I have one suit which is enough for now, and that store in Washington DC is now a forgotten name that is likely long out of business for the same reasons just stated.
I do remember buying a pair of shoes for 50% off due to a strange size. I wore those proudly. I recall the original retail was $160 which would probably be $400+ today.
At the time I had bought them there was also a suit for sale. It was a nailhead pattern, very distinguished, charcoal grey, maybe even double breasted, in the right size. I had tried it on and it looked good! But it costs about $600 then, even on sale.
I recall that the salesman told me "You probably need a little gray in your temples to wear this". So that was the end of that. I was 22 years old!
Advancing now to the eve of my 53rd birthday. I was looking in the mirror today and noticed that Gray in my Temples. I'm in! But now I live in a near tropical climate, no one wears suits much in this day and age of casual days, I have one suit which is enough for now, and that store in Washington DC is now a forgotten name that is likely long out of business for the same reasons just stated.
Saturday, April 28, 2018
Bishop's Golf Tournament 2018
Year 2 to play in this scramble tournament to benefit college ministry of the Episcopal Diocese. Bishop David Reed is in attendance and while not a super golfer, does enjoy being with everyone for a good cause. Shout out to Mark H for organizing the tournament. Well done.
I played with Mark, Charles and Kyle. All had a good time. Scramble tournament do not necessarily play to my strengths (accuracy, medium/long irons) but I did end up hitting the driver well and making my share of putts. We finished with a respectable score of 62.
Rancho Viejo is undergoing some significant remodeling, so I hope it will be polished nicely. It would be good for the Valley. The course is a parkland style reminding me of the Austin CC (Riverside course), wide fairways, a driver's course, with well placed fairway bunkers. And good greens.
I played with Mark, Charles and Kyle. All had a good time. Scramble tournament do not necessarily play to my strengths (accuracy, medium/long irons) but I did end up hitting the driver well and making my share of putts. We finished with a respectable score of 62.
Rancho Viejo is undergoing some significant remodeling, so I hope it will be polished nicely. It would be good for the Valley. The course is a parkland style reminding me of the Austin CC (Riverside course), wide fairways, a driver's course, with well placed fairway bunkers. And good greens.
Saturday, April 21, 2018
3 Term President Dies #satire
President Barbara Bush died last week at the age of 92 in Houston. In control to the end, she alerted the media that she had chosen to prepare for death, therefore allowing suitable lead time for the news stories.
Mrs. Bush served 3 terms, as the 41st President (through George H.W. Bush) and then 2 terms as the 43rd President (through George W. Bush). Her legacy is that True Power is not directly addressed by the 25th amendment. "The country needed a good woman, and I stepped up to meet the call" she noted in her private farewell address in 2009.
When asked if she would prefer to be Vice President she echoed Vice President John Nance Garner that it was not worth a warm bucket of spit and noted that after the debacle of a weak VP of Dan Quayle, she installed a more effective figurehead in Dick Cheney to reverse that mistake. She noted that you learn more and more as you serve as President longer.
After the election President Bill Clinton, she worked behind the scenes to return to office, using the power of her Bush name and connections. A true adherent to classic Republican ideals, she supported her son Jeb Bush in a bid for a 4th term, but ultimately she realized that her time was not without its limits.
Bitter to the end that he would not measure up to President Barbara Bush, President Trump will not attend the funeral in Houston, sending Melania Trump instead to learn some of the formal actions Mrs. Bush did in her guise as First Lady and First Mother.
Sunday, April 8, 2018
Ironman Anniversary
Today is the running of the Ironman 70.3 triathlon in Galveston, TX. It was 4 years ago that I completed that event. It was a high water mark in several respects. The culmination of 5 years of triathlon training. The longest distance I had ever done- 70.3 miles. A life goal. My mother and sister were there to see me complete it. As well as my good friend Sam and John who also did the event.
Afterwards Sam and John and I took a picture - I wish I still had it. I finally teared up at the thought of us celebrating together. I thought, we will never be at this exact place again like this. I drank it in.
So after that mountaintop experience, I expected a letdown. But I didn't expect the letdown to be as big as it was.
That year was the end of my triathlons. I just didn't have the urge to continue at it. Then the bombs really started falling.
In October 2014, my good friend Paul Farmer died in an auto pedestrian accident. Age 49, leaving a wife and daughter behind.
In December 2014, I ran the McAllen Half Marathon. I saw my friend Scott Crane that morning getting ready for the marathon. I had trained with him and he was a very experienced runner. He quit the race at mile 20 complaining of an some ailment. He died later that day.
To celebrate Paul's life, John, Sam, Paul's brother Kyle, our friend Bob and I went on a ski trip in February 2015. We had a great time together. Then Bob Bryan died unexpectedly in March 2015.
John, Sam, Kyle and I continued to get together. Until Sam Rush died in March 2016, training for an Ironman triathlon.
This exercise which was supposed to keep us healthy was taking all of my friends. I pulled away from it even more. I suffered from some depression. I was drinking alcohol. Note to my future self - don't add the depressant of alcohol to an existing condition of depression.
Thankfully I've been able to turn this around, with my fair share of help. Nobody does it alone. Everything happens for a reason and that will be revealed at the right time. One thing I have learned - it just can't be a surprise when someone in their 50s dies. Make the most of today and be grateful for all we have been given.
Today I was reminded of all this. I've started running some again. Today was a perfect day for it. I was open to possibility. I completed the distance and more. I saw my friend Steve running today, wearing his Ironman shirt. He's the one who was the original spark to do an Ironman 70.3. I thought of Sam today, and Paul and Scott and Bob. They're still with me and I'm sure they would tell me to Keep Moving Forward.
As Mother Teresa said, when you do something for someone else, Jesus would say, "You did it to me".
Afterwards Sam and John and I took a picture - I wish I still had it. I finally teared up at the thought of us celebrating together. I thought, we will never be at this exact place again like this. I drank it in.
So after that mountaintop experience, I expected a letdown. But I didn't expect the letdown to be as big as it was.
That year was the end of my triathlons. I just didn't have the urge to continue at it. Then the bombs really started falling.
In October 2014, my good friend Paul Farmer died in an auto pedestrian accident. Age 49, leaving a wife and daughter behind.
In December 2014, I ran the McAllen Half Marathon. I saw my friend Scott Crane that morning getting ready for the marathon. I had trained with him and he was a very experienced runner. He quit the race at mile 20 complaining of an some ailment. He died later that day.
To celebrate Paul's life, John, Sam, Paul's brother Kyle, our friend Bob and I went on a ski trip in February 2015. We had a great time together. Then Bob Bryan died unexpectedly in March 2015.
John, Sam, Kyle and I continued to get together. Until Sam Rush died in March 2016, training for an Ironman triathlon.
This exercise which was supposed to keep us healthy was taking all of my friends. I pulled away from it even more. I suffered from some depression. I was drinking alcohol. Note to my future self - don't add the depressant of alcohol to an existing condition of depression.
Thankfully I've been able to turn this around, with my fair share of help. Nobody does it alone. Everything happens for a reason and that will be revealed at the right time. One thing I have learned - it just can't be a surprise when someone in their 50s dies. Make the most of today and be grateful for all we have been given.
Today I was reminded of all this. I've started running some again. Today was a perfect day for it. I was open to possibility. I completed the distance and more. I saw my friend Steve running today, wearing his Ironman shirt. He's the one who was the original spark to do an Ironman 70.3. I thought of Sam today, and Paul and Scott and Bob. They're still with me and I'm sure they would tell me to Keep Moving Forward.
As Mother Teresa said, when you do something for someone else, Jesus would say, "You did it to me".
Thursday, April 5, 2018
Boston Marathon - 1979
One of our best family friends is Glenn Good. He and my parents have been friends since the early 60s in Houston.
When Glenn was 43 he took up running with a purpose. He worked with the top running coach in Houston and became a top marathon runner. He qualified for the Boston Marathon several times and ran 63 marathons. Here is a story he told about the 1st Boston Marathon he did in 1979.
Glenn grew up in Vermont and knew about the Boston Marathon. So it was a long-time dream to do it.
The marathon has been run since 1910 or so in Boston, back when the distance was "standardized" at 26.2 miles. So the course is historic. It is a point to point run so you have to take a bus to the start in Hopkintown, MA and then you run back to downtown Boston.
The race starts at 11 a.m. ( much later than usual). It is held on a Monday which is a state holiday in Mass. called Patriots Day.
So Glenn took the bus out and had to stand around in the cold. It was very cold, he remembered. He was from Houston so he was not ready for it. He asked an Australian for his strategy for the race. "It's balls to the wall, Mate".
Then when the race started, there were a lot of kids running through the various towns. It was crowded and he could not get a pace going. The balls had hit the wall.
Then at mile 6, he saw our other family friend standing there, Preston Moore. Now this is only funny since Preston is the Zelig of Houston. He was everywhere. He even died in the most dramatic way possible. So to see him in the crowds in Boston... of course you would see him.
When he made it to the finish, there were large casks of hot beef stew that they served the participants. While Glenn was an experienced runner, he was not an experienced beef stew eater after running a marathon. He ended up barfing up the stew in the middle of his hotel afterwards.
What an initial Boston Marathon experience!
When Glenn was 43 he took up running with a purpose. He worked with the top running coach in Houston and became a top marathon runner. He qualified for the Boston Marathon several times and ran 63 marathons. Here is a story he told about the 1st Boston Marathon he did in 1979.
Glenn grew up in Vermont and knew about the Boston Marathon. So it was a long-time dream to do it.
The marathon has been run since 1910 or so in Boston, back when the distance was "standardized" at 26.2 miles. So the course is historic. It is a point to point run so you have to take a bus to the start in Hopkintown, MA and then you run back to downtown Boston.
The race starts at 11 a.m. ( much later than usual). It is held on a Monday which is a state holiday in Mass. called Patriots Day.
So Glenn took the bus out and had to stand around in the cold. It was very cold, he remembered. He was from Houston so he was not ready for it. He asked an Australian for his strategy for the race. "It's balls to the wall, Mate".
Then when the race started, there were a lot of kids running through the various towns. It was crowded and he could not get a pace going. The balls had hit the wall.
Then at mile 6, he saw our other family friend standing there, Preston Moore. Now this is only funny since Preston is the Zelig of Houston. He was everywhere. He even died in the most dramatic way possible. So to see him in the crowds in Boston... of course you would see him.
When he made it to the finish, there were large casks of hot beef stew that they served the participants. While Glenn was an experienced runner, he was not an experienced beef stew eater after running a marathon. He ended up barfing up the stew in the middle of his hotel afterwards.
What an initial Boston Marathon experience!
Sunday, March 25, 2018
Still working to help the RGV
I read an interesting article about Judge Andrew Hanen. We both moved here to the Valley from Houston in 2002. I had one of my first cases in his court. I was glad that I had gone to meet him before. He was a very prominent lawyer in Houston before becoming a judge.
Today I read that he is transferring back to Houston. "People forget I've been in Brownsville for 16 years" he said. But that is not a long time to people who parents, grandparents and more all still are here.
So while I wish him well, I'm glad to say that there is still work for me to do here. I just wrote a letter of recommendation for a person to join the LVN to RN program. I just encouraged a young friend that his goal of having his own restaurant was closer than he thought. We've got a medical school to bring up. We've got 25,000 students in McAllen ISD that need to learn in a safe environment. We've got veterans who need driven to the cardiologist.
As I say, This Is Home Now.
Today I read that he is transferring back to Houston. "People forget I've been in Brownsville for 16 years" he said. But that is not a long time to people who parents, grandparents and more all still are here.
So while I wish him well, I'm glad to say that there is still work for me to do here. I just wrote a letter of recommendation for a person to join the LVN to RN program. I just encouraged a young friend that his goal of having his own restaurant was closer than he thought. We've got a medical school to bring up. We've got 25,000 students in McAllen ISD that need to learn in a safe environment. We've got veterans who need driven to the cardiologist.
As I say, This Is Home Now.
Thursday, March 22, 2018
Big John
In September 1983, I was a freshman in my first day in the dormitory. We had a meeting of the Hall which was about 16 of us young men and our "Dorm Counselor" Andy who was an upperclassman selected to reside in the dorm as a mentor to the freshman. This was a desirable position as it provided free room and board in exchange for this freshman mentoring. We looked up to him as a senior.
In that first meeting, he told us, "You're going to meet Big John, who is the custodian on the hall. Don't mess with Big John." He warned us of his temper. Said he used to weight a lot - hence the Big John name. No last name was provided - or needed.
Big John was probably about 40 years old. He was about 5'9", 200 pounds maybe. He was a black man, bearded, and usually wore tinted classes and a a trucker cap, and sometime an old Army fatigue shirt. John talked about being in Vietnam. Now this was the days of movies like the Deer Hunter and Apocalypse Now, and veterans were not considered as heroic as today. So (in a sign of those times) I would ask him to talk about Vietnam perhaps not always in a serious manner. In hindsight I don't think I had ever really know another Vietnam vet at that time. Certainly not a black vet.
Big John would usually finish his work by early afternoon would often be watching TV in our TV room at the end of the hall. I do recall sitting with him and engaging in some conversation.
Being warned at the beginning, I never did anything to get on his bad side. The memories that others have is that seeing the hall overflowing with trash (pizza boxes, beer bottles, messy bathrooms) from a long hard weekend after he had not worked on Sat or Sunday would set him off and he would throw around the metal trash cans and curse loudly to show his displeasure.
I only lived in that dorm (Graham Lees Room 150) for a year. I don't think I saw Big John around too much after then. I expect he worked for the university for a long time, as the custodians were older men then. I also heard that Big John had worked as a waiter at a fraternity house (Phi Delta Theta) in the 1960s as a young man. He put in many years of service for W&L students.
Interestingly other of the staff jobs (e.g the building and grounds) were all white men. In the snack bar we called the Co-Op, all the people that worked there were black women. We got to recognize them as well.
A sordid history of the university was that it owned slaves in the 1820s to the 1840s. Perhaps some of the university's black employees were descendants from those enslaved people. There is a monument to the people now - perhaps these thoughts might allow more research into the lives of those people who have made Washington and Lee University what is it.
In that first meeting, he told us, "You're going to meet Big John, who is the custodian on the hall. Don't mess with Big John." He warned us of his temper. Said he used to weight a lot - hence the Big John name. No last name was provided - or needed.
Big John was probably about 40 years old. He was about 5'9", 200 pounds maybe. He was a black man, bearded, and usually wore tinted classes and a a trucker cap, and sometime an old Army fatigue shirt. John talked about being in Vietnam. Now this was the days of movies like the Deer Hunter and Apocalypse Now, and veterans were not considered as heroic as today. So (in a sign of those times) I would ask him to talk about Vietnam perhaps not always in a serious manner. In hindsight I don't think I had ever really know another Vietnam vet at that time. Certainly not a black vet.
Big John would usually finish his work by early afternoon would often be watching TV in our TV room at the end of the hall. I do recall sitting with him and engaging in some conversation.
Being warned at the beginning, I never did anything to get on his bad side. The memories that others have is that seeing the hall overflowing with trash (pizza boxes, beer bottles, messy bathrooms) from a long hard weekend after he had not worked on Sat or Sunday would set him off and he would throw around the metal trash cans and curse loudly to show his displeasure.
I only lived in that dorm (Graham Lees Room 150) for a year. I don't think I saw Big John around too much after then. I expect he worked for the university for a long time, as the custodians were older men then. I also heard that Big John had worked as a waiter at a fraternity house (Phi Delta Theta) in the 1960s as a young man. He put in many years of service for W&L students.
Interestingly other of the staff jobs (e.g the building and grounds) were all white men. In the snack bar we called the Co-Op, all the people that worked there were black women. We got to recognize them as well.
A sordid history of the university was that it owned slaves in the 1820s to the 1840s. Perhaps some of the university's black employees were descendants from those enslaved people. There is a monument to the people now - perhaps these thoughts might allow more research into the lives of those people who have made Washington and Lee University what is it.
Thursday, February 22, 2018
Happy Birthday to Ed Turley
Today is my father Ed's 83rd birthday. Born in 1935, he's lived through World War II (he always remembers the teacher writing 4-4-44 on the board), the Cold War, Sputnik, the Kennedy Assassination (another euphemism for murder), Vietnam, the Moon landing, Houston boom, 80s market crash, the Internet rise, 9/11, and now Donald Trump as President. He's seen a lot of change.
He spent 50 years working as a lawyer, law professor, dabbled in real estate, and is a prolific writer. I've got the stories written down to prove it. He's been married to my mother since 1961. Two great kids, as he likes to say :)
And he's led an interesting life. Among people he's met and known: George H.W. Bush, James Baker, Dr. Denton Cooley, Harvey Penick, Davis Love Jr and III, Ben Crenshaw, a number of WWII fighter pilot aces.
He came of age in 1950s America, a time when college sports didn't have scholarships like now, before interstate highways, before school integration, when there was an active military draft. He's got that sensibility, work hard and the reward should come. That's his background.
Ed's in good health now - he takes no medicines, stays active, regularly shoot his age or better at golf. Even if he complains it's from the senior tees. That's kind of a metaphor for him: play your ball and the course as you find it, and keep moving forward.
Happy Birthday Dad!
He spent 50 years working as a lawyer, law professor, dabbled in real estate, and is a prolific writer. I've got the stories written down to prove it. He's been married to my mother since 1961. Two great kids, as he likes to say :)
And he's led an interesting life. Among people he's met and known: George H.W. Bush, James Baker, Dr. Denton Cooley, Harvey Penick, Davis Love Jr and III, Ben Crenshaw, a number of WWII fighter pilot aces.
He came of age in 1950s America, a time when college sports didn't have scholarships like now, before interstate highways, before school integration, when there was an active military draft. He's got that sensibility, work hard and the reward should come. That's his background.
Ed's in good health now - he takes no medicines, stays active, regularly shoot his age or better at golf. Even if he complains it's from the senior tees. That's kind of a metaphor for him: play your ball and the course as you find it, and keep moving forward.
Happy Birthday Dad!
Monday, February 19, 2018
Still Patty
I am working on finishing my next book, tentatively called Still Patty.
Patricia is an instructor at a community college in Austin and in a summer lull. Recently divorced from her second husband Dan, she decides to Google her first ex-husband Lee from 20 years ago and to go to find him in Alaska. Her best friend Kristi and ex-stepdaughter Jackie come along and together they try and help Patricia through this mid-life crisis, all while each dealing with their own life changes.
Expect it during the second quarter of this year.
Also by Gregory Turley: Hideway (2016) available on Amazon: Thomas Denison has recently graduated from college when he becomes a suspect in the disappearance of his girlfriend Laura Meyerson. After being questioned by authorities, he turns to an influential family friend Harvey Garza a Congressional staffer who helps him hide out from investigators and Laura's influential family while they try to find out, "Where's Laura?"
Patricia is an instructor at a community college in Austin and in a summer lull. Recently divorced from her second husband Dan, she decides to Google her first ex-husband Lee from 20 years ago and to go to find him in Alaska. Her best friend Kristi and ex-stepdaughter Jackie come along and together they try and help Patricia through this mid-life crisis, all while each dealing with their own life changes.
Expect it during the second quarter of this year.
Also by Gregory Turley: Hideway (2016) available on Amazon: Thomas Denison has recently graduated from college when he becomes a suspect in the disappearance of his girlfriend Laura Meyerson. After being questioned by authorities, he turns to an influential family friend Harvey Garza a Congressional staffer who helps him hide out from investigators and Laura's influential family while they try to find out, "Where's Laura?"
A dream in Amherst, VA
I was driving through Amherst, VA near Sweet Briar College (and former Sweet Briar Plantation). Susan was in the car with me. We got a flat tire and limped to a old style service station. Susan was very anxious for me to get the car back going, even thought I was not able to change the tire myself and had to convince someone at the service station to drop what he was doing to help us. It was a tense situation but we got the tire fixed.
Friday, February 16, 2018
Now we are engaged in a great civil war....
Some thoughts on the Parkland Florida "mass shooting" e.g. 17 children murdered in cold blood
"Mass shooting" is certainly a euphemism. It sounds almost accidental.
The high capacity semi automatic rifle is certainly blameworthy in this question. Having shot one ( and I can say I liked shooting it) it is easy to fire, little recoil, easy to point and shoot, and not that hard to learn to use. Probably why they are the weapon on choice for draftees and other boot recruits to teach them the operative training to shoot.
There are a lot of Federal gun laws that already exist. To some degree, they are pretty weak. They are obviously designed to be that way. For example, there is a maximum punishment for buying multiple guns for bad purposes. At some point, the more you buy just doesn't matter. They don't seem to reach this type of terror. It must be intentional.
At heart I think the Feds think this is a local problem and not a national problem. And Congress follows along. Even when they get shot up. That's a shame. Look at what happened in the 1986 Miami FBI shootout. The death of 2 FBI agents prompted a wholesale re-gunning of all of law enforcement. But the random violent deaths of ordinary people - nothing can prevent that, right?
And there is no question the fact that there is no liability for manufacturers and sellers is a reason that the supply just continues.
As long as the man on the street can get a hold of the same weapons as law enforcement or military, it it will be hard to keep this disorder from erupting.
None of this has to do with hunting, or self defense, or recreational target shooting, or things that normal people do.
These killings are getting too close to home. I can imagine I could have been at the Route 91 Harvest Festival listening to Jason Aldean on October 1, 2017. And I was nervous is my own church on Christmas Eve - fearing that some crazed person could come through our open door like in Charleston, SC or Sutherland Springs, TX. That's a bad feeling to have.
It seems a cop out to say new laws won't matter. I think that it is time to do something, even if it turns out to be mistaken. Inaction doesn't seem to be working.
"Mass shooting" is certainly a euphemism. It sounds almost accidental.
The high capacity semi automatic rifle is certainly blameworthy in this question. Having shot one ( and I can say I liked shooting it) it is easy to fire, little recoil, easy to point and shoot, and not that hard to learn to use. Probably why they are the weapon on choice for draftees and other boot recruits to teach them the operative training to shoot.
There are a lot of Federal gun laws that already exist. To some degree, they are pretty weak. They are obviously designed to be that way. For example, there is a maximum punishment for buying multiple guns for bad purposes. At some point, the more you buy just doesn't matter. They don't seem to reach this type of terror. It must be intentional.
At heart I think the Feds think this is a local problem and not a national problem. And Congress follows along. Even when they get shot up. That's a shame. Look at what happened in the 1986 Miami FBI shootout. The death of 2 FBI agents prompted a wholesale re-gunning of all of law enforcement. But the random violent deaths of ordinary people - nothing can prevent that, right?
And there is no question the fact that there is no liability for manufacturers and sellers is a reason that the supply just continues.
As long as the man on the street can get a hold of the same weapons as law enforcement or military, it it will be hard to keep this disorder from erupting.
None of this has to do with hunting, or self defense, or recreational target shooting, or things that normal people do.
These killings are getting too close to home. I can imagine I could have been at the Route 91 Harvest Festival listening to Jason Aldean on October 1, 2017. And I was nervous is my own church on Christmas Eve - fearing that some crazed person could come through our open door like in Charleston, SC or Sutherland Springs, TX. That's a bad feeling to have.
It seems a cop out to say new laws won't matter. I think that it is time to do something, even if it turns out to be mistaken. Inaction doesn't seem to be working.
Thursday, February 15, 2018
15th Congressional District of Texas
I am a constituent of the 15th Congressional District. Reading an old obituary of Milton West, he was this district's Congressman from 1936 to 1948. He lived in Brownsville, TX.
He was succeeded by Lloyd Bentsen (1948-1955), then Joe Kilgore (1955-1965). I met a man who received his Naval Academy commission from Joe Kilgore.
Kiki De La Garza followed, and he was a Congressman for over 30 years.
Thereafter Ruben Hinojosa served for over 20 years, and now Vicenete Gonzalez is our representative.
What can we tell about this? This area of South Texas must have been considerably larger when the population was less. It apparently covered the entire Valley. Back then the Anglos controled all the politics, based on a large divesting of property which was then bought in large chunks and sold off at retail. Such is the story of America. In the 60s, the Hispanic wave crested and the locals started getting elected. Once they rose in this Majority minority area, there was no turning back.
He was succeeded by Lloyd Bentsen (1948-1955), then Joe Kilgore (1955-1965). I met a man who received his Naval Academy commission from Joe Kilgore.
Kiki De La Garza followed, and he was a Congressman for over 30 years.
Thereafter Ruben Hinojosa served for over 20 years, and now Vicenete Gonzalez is our representative.
What can we tell about this? This area of South Texas must have been considerably larger when the population was less. It apparently covered the entire Valley. Back then the Anglos controled all the politics, based on a large divesting of property which was then bought in large chunks and sold off at retail. Such is the story of America. In the 60s, the Hispanic wave crested and the locals started getting elected. Once they rose in this Majority minority area, there was no turning back.
Saturday, February 3, 2018
Jerry Seinfeld
As part of my Christmas present, Sarah bought us tickets to see Jerry Seinfeld in Madison. The show was last night, Friday, 9:30 p.m at the Overture Theater.
It was like seeing an old friend that you had not seen in years. After a short time, you realize he has not changed at all. The show had what I would call 5 acts, the first being his Observational humor, the second, nostalgia, the third, "new" technology, the fourth, marriage, and the fifth, a wrap of Observational.
Coming to prominence in the 90s, his takes on cell phones and email make him sound like the 63 year old that he is. But like Star Wars: The Force Awakens, he is necessarily hemmed in by what people remember and expect. He couldn't even bring himself to say "F***"
A good show and a lot of fun. I never would have seen it otherwise. Thanks for a great Christmas present and a memorable trip. Might have well as been on Broadway.
It was like seeing an old friend that you had not seen in years. After a short time, you realize he has not changed at all. The show had what I would call 5 acts, the first being his Observational humor, the second, nostalgia, the third, "new" technology, the fourth, marriage, and the fifth, a wrap of Observational.
Coming to prominence in the 90s, his takes on cell phones and email make him sound like the 63 year old that he is. But like Star Wars: The Force Awakens, he is necessarily hemmed in by what people remember and expect. He couldn't even bring himself to say "F***"
A good show and a lot of fun. I never would have seen it otherwise. Thanks for a great Christmas present and a memorable trip. Might have well as been on Broadway.
Wednesday, January 31, 2018
January 31
It's the end of January - first of 12 months already done. I've made some good progress on my 2018 resolutions. Let growth happen organically. Get up an hour earlier. Help others.
I'm heading to Madison WI tomorrow - going to visit Sarah and Travis. Looking forward to it and the weather should be very cold! in the 10s and 20s. I hope I have the right clothes but I can always borrow from Travis.
We are using my Christmas present - tickets to Jerry Seinfeld show on Friday night. It should be great. I just watched his Netflix show so I am warmed up again.
I'm heading to Madison WI tomorrow - going to visit Sarah and Travis. Looking forward to it and the weather should be very cold! in the 10s and 20s. I hope I have the right clothes but I can always borrow from Travis.
We are using my Christmas present - tickets to Jerry Seinfeld show on Friday night. It should be great. I just watched his Netflix show so I am warmed up again.
Friday, January 26, 2018
Bill of Rights Conference 2018
I spoke at the Hidalgo County Bar Association Bills of Rights Conference today. A life goal to speak at a major CLE event. The out of town speakers were excellent so I thought I was in good company.
My topic was Advising License to Carry Handgun Holders. I told the crowd that the one thing to remember was that it was no longer called a CHL (concealed handgun license).
I should have the video I had professionally made up for viewing soon. You can see it for yourself.
My friend Abner said that I had a good "pedagogical way" about me. A high compliment.
My topic was Advising License to Carry Handgun Holders. I told the crowd that the one thing to remember was that it was no longer called a CHL (concealed handgun license).
I should have the video I had professionally made up for viewing soon. You can see it for yourself.
My friend Abner said that I had a good "pedagogical way" about me. A high compliment.
Thursday, January 18, 2018
Last Day of 2017
Today is New Year's Eve and a Sunday to boot, so it is a nice day to consider the year and all that has occurred. And to make some plans for 2018
Some of the high points of 2017 were:
Sarah and Travis getting engaged. Looking forward to the future plans of them.
Decision to form a new law firm - starting next Tuesday. Getting the office cleared out and ready for new people was like moving.
Remodeling our kitchen/ living area. Again, that was like moving. Lots of work went in to that and it looks great.
Three big trips to 2 new states and one new area of Mexico. There was something good about each trip: the father/adult son aspect of the college reunion. The new friend/ new discovery of Alaska. The new friends and new activity of the yoga retreat to Isla Mujures.
A lot of personal growth happened this year. It continues but I think I've crossed the rubicon into my 50s officially and mentally
I've enjoyed my piano playing this year. I'm glad to put my Yamaha to good use. This next year I should be ready for my recital.
My public speaking has hit a good level on the Second Amendment and Contacts with Law Enforcement. I finally have the right topic to be able to discuss that people are interested in.
My writing continues. I've made good progress on Book #2 tentatively called "Still Patty". Planning to push to completion in early 2018. My movie blog is getting better - 69 posts this year and I was just checking - lots of page views this week. Must be catching on after 5 years.
And of course my Driver X movie. "My" movie is perhaps an overstatement. But that involvement has been very significant this year. As my friend Alex put it, it will now have a life of its own. And helping to make that happen was very enjoyable in a lot of respects.
Some of the high points of 2017 were:
Sarah and Travis getting engaged. Looking forward to the future plans of them.
Decision to form a new law firm - starting next Tuesday. Getting the office cleared out and ready for new people was like moving.
Remodeling our kitchen/ living area. Again, that was like moving. Lots of work went in to that and it looks great.
Three big trips to 2 new states and one new area of Mexico. There was something good about each trip: the father/adult son aspect of the college reunion. The new friend/ new discovery of Alaska. The new friends and new activity of the yoga retreat to Isla Mujures.
A lot of personal growth happened this year. It continues but I think I've crossed the rubicon into my 50s officially and mentally
I've enjoyed my piano playing this year. I'm glad to put my Yamaha to good use. This next year I should be ready for my recital.
My public speaking has hit a good level on the Second Amendment and Contacts with Law Enforcement. I finally have the right topic to be able to discuss that people are interested in.
My writing continues. I've made good progress on Book #2 tentatively called "Still Patty". Planning to push to completion in early 2018. My movie blog is getting better - 69 posts this year and I was just checking - lots of page views this week. Must be catching on after 5 years.
And of course my Driver X movie. "My" movie is perhaps an overstatement. But that involvement has been very significant this year. As my friend Alex put it, it will now have a life of its own. And helping to make that happen was very enjoyable in a lot of respects.
Sunday, January 14, 2018
2017 Golf in Review
I'm including a bit of the New Year of 2018 in this. I just finished playing the Ano Nuevo tournament at the McAllen Country Club. I played with Brian H. We have played before a number of times - I thought our partnership would be a good one. While we enjoyed playing with each other, the pressure of tournament golf got to both of us. 54 holes later, we were glad to finish and leave the course. Maybe its the setting of the course up to make it harder - greens are faster - pins are in the hard spots - tees are back, but it makes it tough. Susan said "I told you not to play in those tournaments" - I may have to pass the baton.... but it does feel a bit early to do so. We will see.
As David Cook would say, my golf score in not a reflection of my worth. I have had a lot of enjoyment this past year on the course. I did play in the 9 holes tournament in April, May and June. It was a Tuesday evening event and we did play with a lot of different people. We won some, we lost some, it was a pretty good time. And the course was not set up so hard.
I did have a record round of 79 this year. I couldn't believe it when I added up the scorecard. I think that is why I did so well. Plus I had 2 guests so I was talking them around the course, which helped me play more methodically. Looking at the card, it was from the green tees, 5,946 yards. I guess that is more my speed.
And I did witness some excellent golf. On January 1, 2017, I played with Papito who is on the University of Houston golf team. He shot 30-33= 63, 8 under par at McAllen CC. from the back tees, 6,397 yards. We also played again on December 31, a nice bookend. He was -2 after 9 holes when we had to call it due to weather. I also played with "The Future", Jimmy Lee who is ranked in the top 50 junior golfers in the US.
Ed and I played several times: on our trip to Virginia, we played the Lexington Golf and Country Club, then in Wilmington, DE I played the Ed Oliver Golf Course (former Wilmington CC) and then we played Bidermann Golf Club, a very old money place.
We did also play in December at Houston C.C. Since it was wet, we played from the 150 yard mark in and that was fun, since we were hitting short irons into every green. I like that approach.
Kyle and I played Lions Municipal in Austin when we were there for the Blondie and Garbage concert in August. It was a hot day - I enjoyed showing Kyle around. He said "I can tell this course means a lot to you". Looking at the card, I shot 82 which was another low round. I guess I just have to be inspired to play my best!
As David Cook would say, my golf score in not a reflection of my worth. I have had a lot of enjoyment this past year on the course. I did play in the 9 holes tournament in April, May and June. It was a Tuesday evening event and we did play with a lot of different people. We won some, we lost some, it was a pretty good time. And the course was not set up so hard.
I did have a record round of 79 this year. I couldn't believe it when I added up the scorecard. I think that is why I did so well. Plus I had 2 guests so I was talking them around the course, which helped me play more methodically. Looking at the card, it was from the green tees, 5,946 yards. I guess that is more my speed.
And I did witness some excellent golf. On January 1, 2017, I played with Papito who is on the University of Houston golf team. He shot 30-33= 63, 8 under par at McAllen CC. from the back tees, 6,397 yards. We also played again on December 31, a nice bookend. He was -2 after 9 holes when we had to call it due to weather. I also played with "The Future", Jimmy Lee who is ranked in the top 50 junior golfers in the US.
Ed and I played several times: on our trip to Virginia, we played the Lexington Golf and Country Club, then in Wilmington, DE I played the Ed Oliver Golf Course (former Wilmington CC) and then we played Bidermann Golf Club, a very old money place.
We did also play in December at Houston C.C. Since it was wet, we played from the 150 yard mark in and that was fun, since we were hitting short irons into every green. I like that approach.
Kyle and I played Lions Municipal in Austin when we were there for the Blondie and Garbage concert in August. It was a hot day - I enjoyed showing Kyle around. He said "I can tell this course means a lot to you". Looking at the card, I shot 82 which was another low round. I guess I just have to be inspired to play my best!
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